No, y'know what's confusing? Someone who's so into relationships that they say it's like ownership - and that's a good thing - being with two different guys who won't do it. Why do you put up with it? Why don't you just find someone who'll actually give you what you want?

[It almost sounds like he's trying to push her away, and he's aware of that, but he's also hoping she'll see that's not his intention. He genuinely wants to get why someone wouldn't be selfish if it's this important to them.]