asgardeventide | 6th flame, anon text; back dated to day 109

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6th flame, anon text; back dated to day 109

So, say this girl, or this guy, says they like you, as more then friends. I mean, nothing can happen, so what the hell are you supposed to say to that? You care about them, but I mean, come on. To make matters worse, what if you say the wrong thing and they're probably never gonna speak to you again. And what if, maybe, just maybe, you might like them back. What do you do?

[ooc: as stated before this entry is backdated to day 109, in reaction to this thread. Make of it what you will.

ALSO NOTE: ALL RESPONSES WILL BE ANON TEXT UNLESS OTHERWISE STATED]

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When you find out. Let the rest of us know.

[He'd roll his eyes if this were video, ya know]

Thanks. That's comforting.

[Well then, no way this sounds familiar.]

Tell them how you feel.

That's my problem, I dunno how I feel. This just made thinks worse.

Edited 2012-07-14 03:55 (UTC)

you can tell them the truth... or ignore their feelings - and yours.

you take the chance or you miss it.

What the hell does that even mean?

don't take your frustration out on me...

you may only live once, so you tell them how you feel

even if you aren't sure yourself

you feel something, or you wouldn't be worrying about it and you wouldn't be posting. right?

or you can ignore it and someone else will come along. maybe they will like this guy or girl except they will actually say so instead of just posting about it.

clearer?

I'm not, I'm just irritated at everything okay? I messed up and don't know how to fix it.

[He doesn't know who to talk to, and doesn't know what to do. He hates to admit it, but man, what he wouldn't give for his brother to be here right now]

Yeah, I get it. There's something and I don't know what, and they're the type of person that someone's bound to come around eventually. [Actually come to think of it there already is someone, that guy from home. He could tell.]

Then I suggest you fix it before you ruin it further.

[He's a little suspicious of this, given a similar talk he had with someone not long ago and overhearing snippets of other conversations in that broadcast...]

And how the hell am I supposed to do that? What if I've ruined it forever>

If you consider this person your friend, then there should be little that would be able to to ruin your friendship to the point of 'forever.' If you say that, perhaps you are not ready to even have that friendship.

[Ow that stings bro]

What the hell is that supposed to mean? Ya sayin I shouldn't have friends?

[He's a little too blunt about things at times.]

Not necessarily, or to be accurate not entirely. That you have interpreted my words as such could imply that you yourself do not believe you should have this friendship?

[ oh, Rin. you're in the same position she was not too long ago. ]

if you really like them back, you gotta muster up the courage to say it while you can. you cant go wrong with your true feelings!
if you do, you wont have any regrets. right? :)

Edited 2012-07-13 05:19 (UTC)

And how do I know my true feelings?

well... that might take a little inner questioning.
how do you feel about the person? are they just a close friend, or do you really like them more than that?

or think of it like this: if you guys were together in that way, do you think you'd be happy?

I dunno! I mean there's only been one other girl person I've liked so I dunno what its supposed to feel like. I mean they're special to me and I get really mad when they're with other people. And I want them safe. But what does that mean?

I don't think I'd be happy, no. I think they'd deserve something better. Its always been that way.

:(
but they like you, right? that means that they want you to be with them -- that they'd be happy. they chose you!

you shouldn't deny something like this because you think you aren't good enough. i bet that isn't the case at all!!

Why would nothing be able to happen?

yeah that was my question too

Its complicated, okay.

well on the most general level i would say go for it anyway
but everything else depends on the circumstances!
are you worried what other people will think
is there a third party involved who would be hurt by you getting together
it all depends

Yeah, people always have these complicated romance problems, and then they don't want to explain the important part. Don't know why I even bother sometimes.

Do I have to get into the reasons?

Well, yeah, cuz they have to be good ones.

[ what an embarrassing question to ask... she thinks this person is pretty brave, even for posting anonymously. Maybe she's a bit jealous. ]

I think you should think about it very carefully, and answer them delicately when you find an answer.

[He doesn't feel courageous. Sure does feel like the world's biggest idiot and coward right about now]

And what should I say? When I do figure that out...

That depends on what your answer is, I think. Probably... if you're going to reject them, you should say sorry for hurting their heart.

[ hell if she knows what she'd say. She'd probably spontaneously combust. ]

Edited 2012-07-14 21:19 (UTC)

But will sorry be good enough? If I've already hurt them so badly. [He knows Ranka wouldn't hate him, least that's what he'd like to hope, afterall]

I guess it'll just have to do, right?

Edited 2012-07-19 06:08 (UTC)

It might not be enough, but if that's how you feel, then you can't change it.

[Somehow this question doesn't even ding Ranka as weird. It's just like her situation, and she couldn't be the only one that confessed to someone. She smiles and leans forward.]

I think that there are a lot of people that think nothing can happen. But, I think it's more the decision of the people involved. Mm. I think it's still good to talk to that person and to get on the same page.

If you do that, and you are good friends then they will respect your wishes and still be your friend. Because don't friends accept the good and the bad in each other? I know that I have plenty of friends I've made here and back home that understand this.

Being friends means getting through the hard times too.

AH! Sorry, I guess it's just something that hits close to home.

Edited 2012-07-14 01:14 (UTC)

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